Situationship

 What in the hell is a situationship??? I didn't know what it was until I was in one for almost 2.5 years. If you were to look up the definition online it states "a romantic relationship with no clarity or labels." I would not recommend ever getting into one because it will literally destroy you when you finally have to do what is best for you. When you are in a situationship it feels nice because you think you have someone there for you but in reality, they're talking to others as well. Typically in these situationships, men will try to hold you down while they get to go do things that if you were to try to do, it would be the end of the world. When you bring up issues that would bother you, they'd be like "We aren't in a relationship." They will run with that excuse because they never verbally committed to you that y'all were ever exclusive. So speaking from experience run while you still can and do not let a man do that to you. There are so many other fish in the sea to choose from. Do not settle for less than what you think you deserve in life. One man will be like "She's asking for too much," while another man will be like "That's all she is asking for?" Do not water yourself down just so people you really want to work out with can stick around. It's not worth it and you'll never be unhappy with the outcome. Not everything is meant to work out for you and that is completely okay. Just know you aren't alone in these types of situations.